35 Years of Advantage Play – Part 15
I will now take you on the last leg of this long winding path we have been describing for many weeks. It is now 2019 and this is definitely a downhill journey.
Good video poker opportunities, which have been steadily declining since the Great Recession, have became an endangered species. When you could find a positive play, the edge was usually razor thin. At 80 and 87, I would often tell Brad that I wasn’t sure we would live long enough to get to this now much longer “long term.”
I had slowly been losing my passion for advantage play for several years. I was missing the excitement of special games we loved, like Chase the Royal, Spin Poker, Multi-Strike, Super Times Play. And I especially missed multi-line VP versions, from Triple Play clear up to Hundred Play, which had bounced up the fun factor for many years. Now, we found almost all of the good plays – wanting to have as high an EV as possible – were single line.
Brad didn’t seem to mind sticking with single-line. Gambling – any kind – was still the challenge he had enjoyed since he played Tonk for pennies with his brothers at five years of age. However, in early 2019 I noticed a subtle change in him. He had a take-it-or-leave-it attitude when I was planning when and where we would go to a casino. And when we did go and play, he was often the one who was ready to quit a session. This was a definite change since in the past he would always play “forever” until I made the decision to quit.
As the months went by, the change in him became more evident. He was having serious cognitive problems and he was forgetting the VP strategies he had known and used for years. For a long time we had been playing together when we were at high-level denominations and especially when our advantage edge was getting smaller. We would like to sit side by side and take turns playing “our” machine while the other watched. This would make sure of our accuracy but it was also more fun, especially when we were playing multi-lines and could share the excitement of good hands and sympathize with the disappointment of bad results! However, now we needed to play together so I could help him remember proper strategy.
I had said for several years that I was ready to quit casino gambling, but as long as Brad was enjoying it, I would go along. It was still our main entertainment option and also the center of our social life as we met with friends often to play together and enjoy our comped meals. So, we continued to visit casinos, but on fewer days and with shorter playing sessions.
However, in September Brad’s physical problems became an emergency situation. We had been dealing with his medical issues for 17 years, since his heart attack in 2003. For a few years, we were on first-name basis with the ambulance drivers who would take him to the hospital emergency room. Fortunately, modern medicine had many answers over the years: 7 stents in a heart artery, a pacemaker after a 5-minute cardiac arrest episode, a stockpile of meds, new cutting-edge procedures when his plumbing system malfunctioned. But I just put multiple doctor appointments on the calendar with all the free play pick-ups and other gambling scheduled activities and for many years Brad’s health had not hindered our casino routine.
When the major health setback came in September, we were in Georgia visiting the family and I was so appreciative that they could provide the support I needed while Brad was in the hospital. They took turns staying with Brad so I could get a good night’s sleep back at the house.
We stayed in Georgia several weeks until Brad was able to fly back to Vegas, but this was the beginning of his physical and mental health decline. And it was the time when I realized that we needed to move to Georgia where we had a good family support system.
We played VP only about a dozen more times the rest of 2019. Brad was very frail, using a cane and a walker to get around. We still had many free-play pickups and food comps from our past play history so would visit a casino several days a week. He would want to sit down and play VP but just didn’t have the energy to continue very long – and after a while would just want to watch me play.
I wasn’t very interested in playing since I was now deep into plans for our move to Georgia at the end of the year. When we moved from Indianapolis to Las Vegas in 2000, we had joked that we wouldn’t ever be leaving our condo unless it was feet first. Moving is always a big and exhausting project – doing it when you are in your 80’s is almost an impossibility. Thank goodness – again – my family stepped up. Daughter Angela took off work a couple of weeks and helped me…no, forced this frugal squirrel to throw away, give away… Then Steve and granddaughter Kaity came to help out and we were able to spend Christmas together. Movers came to load up 3 “pods” and we got on a plane and said good-bye to the city we loved.
Next week I will give a summary of these 35 years, and some of the highlights and the lessons we learned along the way.
