Time to do a little computer housecleaning and tackling my Must-Catch-Up file.
First, I want to thank everyone who gave greetings on our recent birthdays – Brad’s #86 and my #79. Don’t worry if you missed mine – I plan to stick with celebrating #79 on December 29 every year for many years to come. The seventies just sound so young these days!
Next, some comments about the “Comment” section here on my blog page. Although I welcome many different viewpoints and encourage details from players from all denomination levels and varied goals, I do occasionally have to refrain from “approving” a comment and it will not appear. I will not tolerate uncivil discussion. I do often approve remarks with which I do not fully agree – and readers must remember that they are the opinions of the commenters and not necessarily mine – when I feel they will generate some helpful information from others. I cannot approve comments of an extreme political or religious nature since they often would plunge us into a chaotic argument that takes us far away from the spirit and purpose of this blog.
Now on to your questions. Frequently someone will ask, “Why do you play at XXX casino; I can’t find anything good to play there?” I have addressed this issue many times down through the years, emphasizing that not every casino gives every customer the opportunity for a “good” – that is, an advantage play. Perhaps these good plays are at higher denominations that would not fit a lower-level player’s bankroll. Or alternatively, good lower denomination inventory may not be attractive for those who can find options for higher level play with the potential for bigger profits. Location plays a big part in choosing good VP plays; many serious players must travel far and wide if there are no good options locally. And sometimes – actually almost always – much of the EV (expected value) of a play is made up of extra benefits and you rarely know how much a player is getting just by a casual look at “what they play.” You don’t know how much coin they play through, how much free play they get in their mailers, or what special-promotion invitations they receive.
A related question Brad and I get: “Why don’t you play at XXX casino; they have good games there.” Some of the explanation in the above paragraph applies. But there is a bigger factor here for us. We just don’t have the energy to “scramble” as much as we used to. We are most comfortable with a casino schedule that includes several “days off” a week. Right now we play regularly in only 3-4 local Vegas casinos, all off the Strip and fairly close to where we live. There may be other good plays in far-away areas of town, but unless we lose some of the nearby ones, we choose to avoid the horrendous time-consuming Vegas traffic whenever possible.
And related to the above discussion, there is one question I have been avoiding answering: “You said you were going to write a book containing yours and Brad’s personal life story. When is that going to come out?”
I really did have a firm plan for this and actually had spent many days and weeks gathering and organizing years of notes. But a couple months ago I suddenly “woke up” with the realization that I was tired of being on a never stopping merry-go-round, with another deadline looming when I finally met the previous one. I love to write and will continue to do short pieces – like for this blog. However, a book is a major project and tends to monopolize and overwhelm the author’s whole life, seeping into every spare hour and pushing out even more-loved druthers.
So, this planned book is now on my not-to-be shelf. But don’t worry missing stories about our personal experiences, both in and outside the casino world. I will continue to include them, as I always have, here in this blog. Some of you will remember the 17-part series I wrote several years ago, telling the story of Brad’s gambling path that began when he was 5 years old. If you are a newer blog reader, you can go back in the archives (Search “Brad Stories” under “Category” on the right side of the blog home page) and find that. Actually, those archives go clear back to April, 2000, with the first article I wrote for “Frugal Fridays” and then continue every year until it morphed into the “Frugal Vegas” blog, telling of our gambling journey over the last 17+ years plus some personal details of our pre-casino life. (You need to sometimes click on “continue reading” to get to all the articles for one particular month.)
In future blogs I will continue to talk about current subjects but occasionally I will reach into my notes and dig out some of the stories that go back 75-85 years, ones that I haven’t shared before. Did you know I heard the word “discount” on the day I was born? That will be the beginning of one story I am anxious to share!
Hi Jean, happy belated to both of you. Having recently retired myself I sure do understand not stressing yourself out over what I’m sure would be a fun read. I must thank you for all your good advice that has led to many “free” Las Vegas vacations. My husband and I have been following you and visiting LV for over 20 years now. We’ll be out in a few weeks and so I was checking the Boyd promotions and can’t find any mention of Y@H! Have they ditched this promotion? I hope to find you and Brad one day to say hi.
Howard, we travel to out-of-town CZR properties. In Vegas we play only at off-Strip locals casinos.
Hi Jean,
I read that you only visit some local casinos, so how do you maintain your status with Caesars?
I’m working on three books (on wildly different subjects), and it’s going slowly precisely because I refuse to treat them as collective projects that perch like parrots on my shoulder and squawk in my ear, “You have to do some writing today.” If I let that happen, I will resent the task, and writing itself. I suppose it’s different for freelance writers who have to write or starve, but I don’t fall into that category, and neither do you. Why not just view the next book as a fun journey that you’ll do in your spare time, and finish whenever? You’re only going to be around for another 100 years or so, so get out there and have fun.
Whatever your decisions on you blog are surely up to you. All I know is you and Brad’ s knowledge, experience and storied I have enjoyed since your first book, which is when I started to seriously consider gambling conditions and looking for the best VP players club comps for my particular gambling experience.
No need to be uncivil to someone who has given us so much. I thank you. Someday I may be able to meet you to personally thank you, until then, many happy draws.
Robin
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Hello Jean,
I just wanted to say it was a pleasure to meet you and Brad last Wednesday at the Palms. My husband and I were walking through to see all the updates when I spotted you and Brad playing VP. I told my husband that you always say to stop and say Hi if we see you in the casino so we back tracked and did just that. I am sure you meet many people, we were the ones in the matching Disney shirts from Chicago. I asked you a question about Red Rock Casino. I do understand you not wanting to run all over Vegas, I swear no one in Vegas knows how to merge not like they do in Chicago:). I think meeting you and Brad was the best part of our trip, although the VP did start paying off for us. So thanks for making us feel welcomed and not intruding when we stopped to say HI.
Happy Belated to both of you.
I am glad that you will continue these mini stories in the blog.
I had a 60 year flashback when you said “Discount” Remember when doctors would give a discount to have things like a “two fer” price to have more than one child get their tonsils removed.?? LOL
Thanks for all that you do to inform and entertain us.
MO
I’m sorry to hear of your decision to shelf the book – for my sake. For your sake, congratulation on a very wise decision! When I stopped working full-time, I remembered a message from a book on retirement that I had previously read: in retirement, forget all those “shoulds” that you followed while pursuing your career. Instead, follow a simple rule: if you enjoy it, do it, and if it stresses you quit it! Good advice, I think. I’ll feel sorry for myself in not getting that planned book, but will enjoy your blog entries instead!