{"id":8236,"date":"2017-09-26T09:21:08","date_gmt":"2017-09-26T16:21:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lasvegasadvisor.com\/gambling-with-an-edge\/?p=8236"},"modified":"2017-10-11T15:06:15","modified_gmt":"2017-10-11T22:06:15","slug":"what-should-i-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lasvegasadvisor.com\/gambling-with-an-edge\/what-should-i-say\/","title":{"rendered":"What Should I Say?"},"content":{"rendered":"

There was a news story recently that 11 years ago, a college professor had told Julian Edelman (currently a New England Patriot wide receiver with two Super Bowl rings) that his goal of playing football professional was unrealistic and he should try something else. The teacher recently sent Edelman an apology for doubting his passion — Good for her! — and Edelman tweeted, \u201cSet your goals high. Do whatever it takes to achieve them. #motivation.\u201d<\/p>\n

It turns out that Edelman went far beyond what this teacher thought he could do. But it also might be true that if this same teacher discouraged 25 other men from trying out for the NFL, she may well have been correct the other 25 times. Edelman is an exception — an undersized guy who made it through with a lot of grit and determination — and clearly there was some luck involved. (Not having a debilitating injury has to be a mixture of skill and luck.)<\/p>\n

The reason I bring this us is that I also am a teacher. During the first session of my most recent semester of free video poker classes, one young man — I\u2019m guessing 30 years old — \u201cCharlie\u201d — wasn\u2019t very impressive in class. My class is interactive and I ask each student a question in turn. It\u2019s pretty obvious to me if somebody has a knack for the game or not. By listening to how they answer the questions, how fast they grasp concepts, and the questions they ask, it\u2019s not that hard for me to make some sort of an evaluation.<\/p>\n

Still, it\u2019s just my opinion. It\u2019s at least possible that someone whom I think has no chance of becoming a decent player ends up being a successful one — in whatever way you wish to define that. It is, however, an educated opinion. I\u2019ve been around successful gamblers for more than 40 years and there are recognizable patterns. Every successful gambler is different from all the others, but things such as apparent intelligence, a curiosity about how things work, and the ability to grasp concepts are pretty common.<\/p>\n

Anyway, after the class, Charlie came up and told me he had recently received a settlement. He had $40,000 total, supplemented his living driving for Uber, and wanted to become rich playing video poker. What should I say?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always a guess as to how much to encourage somebody. I really don\u2019t want to give anybody false hope. Yes, I would earn a few extra dollars for each of my books and software that he purchased, but truly that\u2019s small change. Telling somebody they have a great chance to succeed when I believe the opposite is true is not what I\u2019m about.<\/p>\n

At the same time, telling him flatly, \u201cYou have no chance at all,\u201d isn\u2019t what I\u2019m about either. He might have been having an off day and he might be much smarter and more dedicated than I originally surmised. Although I was pretty sure I was correct in my judgment about him, I\u2019ve been wrong before about many things.<\/p>\n

So I told him that percentagewise, very few video poker players can support themselves just by gambling. It\u2019s tough to succeed and a lot of players are competing with each other to do this. There is simply not enough room for everybody to make money at this. When this occasionally happens, casinos tighten up and then all the players struggle to find the next great opportunity.<\/p>\n

I told him that the successful ones have some aptitude and work very hard perfecting their craft. And luck plays a role as well. You will likely hit \u201cabout\u201d the right number of royals over time, but if you\u2019re playing both quarter and dollars, it makes a big difference whether the royals you hit are quarter royals or dollar royals.<\/p>\n

I also told him that while $40,000 sounded like a lot of money, money goes pretty fast when you\u2019re paying rent, automobile expenses, whatever. If you\u2019re using that money for both living and gambling, going through that in a year or two is very possible — even with some extra money coming in from driving. And then what?<\/p>\n

Finally, I recommended he practice on the computer rather than in the casino. In-casino practice is very expensive. Playing on the nickel machines to save money isn\u2019t usually a good option because those pay schedules are typically very bad. Even I would be a loser on most nickel pay schedules.<\/p>\n

Anyway, that\u2019s what I told him. I tried to balance being realistic with being reasonably supportive. What would you have said?<\/p>\n

(Author\u2019s note: After the first class and after this blog was written, Julian Edelman suffered a tear in the ACL of his right knee and will out all season. My reference early in this blog to Edelman being lucky to avoid debilitating injury now seems awkward in light of more recent events. I left the reference in unchanged — as the story was about Charlie, not Edelman. Writing blogs a month in advance means I\u2019m not under big deadline pressure, but also sometimes current events change what I have written.) <\/em><\/p>\n\"Facebook\"<\/a>\"twitter\"<\/a>\"youtube\"<\/a>\"instagram\"<\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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