Originally posted by: Boris Radtke
Well, this here may be an understatement, but there's certainly some truth behind: I say that your tipping system is a failure. It seems to me that every good American gets this habit like a vaccine shot when he's young that he has to tip everybody who does you a favor. If you're undertipping (stiffing) then you're a bad guy. Europeans, and I know that, have a different mentality and they tip less because the companies pay the wages, not the customers. America has a different attitude in this regards. So, once this is said, let's go a little deeper into the subject: Let' say you're a poker dealer and you mostly depend on the tips that you get from dealing in cash games. On a good night, you perhaps make 250 (280, 350, I have no idea), but in a good casino and in a good game, you may make something around that. On a bad day, or when you call in, then you get zero tips. You're suffering because you make less money than you are supposed to. The house may pay you a few bucks / hour, but that can't make you rich and is not enough to pay your bills. Please correct me if I am wrong. And what if you have gambling blood inside of you? Your shift is over, you had a good day , you made these 350 in that night. You were dealing in a soft and loose game and the chips are flying across the table. You are not tired and it's allowed to gamble at your casino while you're not at work. You grab your jacket to make you look not so much like a casino worker and maybe some people don't recognize you rightaway). You have a bad run and you go through your tipping money. Or you get tilt and get crushed in the craps pit afterwards. Your whole day's work was for the birds.
Same applies to cocktail waitresses that I sometimes see sitting on a slot machine after their shift is over. Do you think they're winning all the time? Or do you think they're just playing 25 dollars before heading home?
These were just 2 examples of a group of people that may be in trouble the older they get. But there are many many more of these groups. I believe in self-discipline. And I just don't believe that all of the people that I see on the streets of Vegas are people that had simply bad luck. I know some people that live in Vegas, gamble little, don't have much, but have a job. There are jobs in Vegas, but you have to have a plan for your life.
And, you don't have to be capitalist to make money in Europe. But if you're not a capitalist, it's not a free ride into retirement. IT's not that Europe is good and America is bad. I am just saying that if you work in the world where tipping is part of it, you have to understand that every time you tip (or better, overtip), then you are doing somebody a favor, which is to your disadvantage. Whether you like this, or not. It's the cold truth. And this doesn't make us Europeans bad people if we tip on the lower end of the scale.
It's a simple reality: minimum wage, having not been adjusted for something like three decades, is simply not even remotely close to what is needed to live on. Even worse, in many states, restaurant servers can be paid a submininum wage, which last time I checked, was $2.13 an hour. Ridiculous!
The individual states have the power to mandate larger minimum wages. Whether that is done or not is heavily dependent on the politics of a given state. Red states settle for the federal minimum of just over $7/hr. Washington, Oregon, California...it's $15 or higher.
So when you characterize the tipping system/culture as a "failure," I'd say, well, then, what would be your solution? Force restaurants, casinos, etc. to pay for their employees a living wage? Well, in blue states, that's what's been done. However, casinos in blue states are mostly in tribal land, and they'te not obligated to pay the state's minimum wage, though many do.
I think you're overcharacterizing (is that a word?) dealers and what they do with their tokes. Sure, some stay afterwards and blow it. But the vast majority don't. And having dealt in Vegas and Reno for right years, I can attest that nothing makes you want LESS to gamble than watching people blow their bankrolls all day.
I also think that you're succumbing to a trope, that the streets of Vegas are filled with people who ruined their lives because they couldn't cure their gambling bug. Sure, there are some such people, but not nearly as many as popular perceptions say. The reason? Simple. It's possible to be a disciplined gambling addict in Vegas and survive. Pay your rent, buy food, and blow the rest. Even $50 can last all day in penny slots or nickel video poker.
Lastly, I don't think most people feel shamed or obligated to tip. It's simply both part of the culture and an economic reality. Without tipping, that waiter or dealer simply wouldn't be there. And if they were paid fairly, your meals would cost more and your gambling would be more expensive.
It may seem like I'm defending the American socioeconomic model. I'm not. I actually think the European model is superior. But Vegas isn't part of Europe. (Some say it isn't part of planet Earth.)