I know what the original poster is saying. Let's be honest, if we've played any amount of time we know that there are some dealers who seem to thrive on the scene, some who, as one dealer woman put it, "make the most of it and try to enjoy work", and those that seem pissed off that they are there and that they have to deal with ANY people, let alone those that are enjoying themselves while they (the dealers) have to work.
I personally have noticed that the Asian dealers have a lesser sense of toleration and "fun" than the other dealers. I'm not saying thats good or bad, but they seem to be there to do a job and their job isn't to smile, talk, or enjoy themselves. Cultural or personal, thats the way most (not all, but most) Asian dealers seem to me. Unfortunately, my plan is to talk and have fun. When I have a stick in the mud running the table, it is hard for me to do that. Therefore, unless I see from a distance otherwise, I avoid these tables. It's nothing racial. Truly, I think most Asian women are beautiful and I would love nothing more than to sit at their table and have fun. We just seem to have different agendas: work vs fun.
To be honest, these types of dealers are also the reasons that I have stopped tipping at the tables. If I tip, I want it to stay with the dealer that earns it. To know that these types of dealers, making snide looks/comments, can share in the tips that I leave for others makes me choose to not leave any tips.
