Originally posted by: Boilerman
Candy, you're parents sound exactly like mine. I litterally never considered another option than college. I was tought manners mostly by my mom, including how to use cutlery, how to treat a lady, to look people in the eye when being introduced, to hold the door open for women, etc. There was no discussion about preparing for life..............it was fully expected.
However, they negated all that by indoctrinating you to be a conservative. Manners mean nothing if you don't have compassion and empathy for others.
Several studies have found that the strongest influence on a person's political ideology is that of his/her parents. Trumpers have little Trumper kids. No-good snowflake liberals have no-good snowflake liberal kids. That's just the way it is. Your conservatism isn't really your fault.
But if you want to talk about values--my parents taught me that we are all equal and that we all have a responsibility to care for one another. "Preparing for life" was about treating others as we would wish to be treated. We were encouraged to seek out all of life's possibilities and follow our own path.
We also were taught to treat all races and ethnicities with respect and to judge people "by the content of their character," as MLK put it. We were taught not to regard someone with less money than others as any less worthy of regard. We were taught common decency. We were educated about our country's heritage and why it matters.
And y'know what? My parents were REPUBLICANS!!!! All that common decency stuff used to be part of conservative philosophy. Now, the Republican party has been perverted into an evil, cruel, distorted version of itself. I am appalled at how Republicans/Trumpers have abandoned their values, their patriotism, their common decency, and their respect for the laws of this country.
Is it maybe because all those old white guys no longer have their parents around to guide them?