Forgive Me, I Am Going To Be Racist - I Will No Longer Date White Women

I have crossed white women off the list when it comes to my dating pool. I have been with Latinas, Asians, and now a Black woman.  I have also been with various mixed-race gals. Growing up, I was with a lot of white women. I married two white women. I will not date them anymore.

The white women in my life have simply been less fun to hang out with. So many of them get caught up in status or literally spend hours day in and day out contemplating what other people will think if they do this or that.   Throw in the fact that 70% of them around here are rabid MAGAs and it is just pointless for me to even try and date them.  The MAGA thing is a deal killer all by itself.

Plus, every woman of color I have been with has been a freak in-between the sheets. Every white woman I have been with had the enthusiasm of a dead fish.  I have also noticed that a lot of younger women of color are up for dating distinguished older white gentlemen.  If I date a white woman, I have to stick close to my age which ups the prudishness and the likelihood of her being a MAGA by a factor of ten.    In summary, life is short stick to what you like.

I have chosen and will continue to choose who I socialize with based on compatibility and personality. Skin color is not a determining factor of those traits.

In my experience, I've had good times and bad with women of all ethnicities. I've known White women who were wonderful and others whom I would toss overboard if we shared a lifeboat. I had a terrific Asian friend and another who turned out to be the most amoral, unethical person I've ever met. I've dated Black women who were a lot of fun and others who were just batshit crazy. I've dated Latinas who had a great outlook on life and others who were tethered to their Church with a short, thick chain.

In short, I've known good people and bad, dated and bedded wonderful, so-so, and outright terrible women, and I can honestly say that race never entered into the equation. I think we're all hard-wired to judge people based on appearance--and then we stereotype them based on what we think we know about whatever group we think they belong to. It's called heuristics, and a very useful mental mechanism--until it isn't.

So I think if you exclude women of any race in your future social endeavors, all you're doing is diminishing your chances of finding someone special.

I am sure there is a white woman for me out there somewhere. The problem is I'll never find her where I live. I am not kidding Kevin with any white woman over 40 in this area there is a 90% chance she is a MAGA. I would never date a MAGA no matter how compatible we were otherwise. 

Oh, I forgot to add not only are 90% of them MAGAs there is also a very high percentage of them that are deeply religious. Anecdotally, these gals are prudes in the bedroom because they ask themselves WWJD before fornicating. 

  I'd rather spend my time prospecting where I have already struck gold.

Well, yeah, you live in Trump Turd Land, whereas I live in a county that went 91% Democrat in the last election. Plus, we don't really do the religion thing here. I'd recommend you move here, except the rents are really high.

As you know, I've been struggling to understand why there should be any MAGAs at all, but the fact that many of them are women really and truly boggles the mind. It's like Jews joining the Nazi Party.

When we say, "What would Jesus do?" we're asking how Jesus, who's our gardener but is off this week, would trim the rose bushes.

I used to have a big fetish for red-heads.  I dated two of them (not at the same time) and they both broke my heart.    Now red-heads are a turn off.     

I dont really have any preferences beyond that.    Its nice turning 50 though.   I'm able to evaluate partners on a scale more meningful beyond what my dick likes.     Theres some freedom in that.

PJ, that's just it. I don't like hanging around the white women in my area. I don't want someone where most of our conversations revolve around how Biden stole the election from Trump or whatever conservative political outrage they found on Facebook that day. And have the remaing conversation revolve around what they are going to wear to church on Sunday.

So many of them have tried to get me to profess my love for Jesus, I have lost count. The implication always being if I don't, I won't be dating them anymore or getting any sex.  I have nothing in common with them.  I am sure there are more open minded white women in Indy but around here thats a rare thing.

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I love Jesus. He charges $25 an hour and takes care of our landscaping. He does a great job with our rose bushes. What a friend we have in Jesus!

I'm boggled that people actually do routinely toss around that MAGA stolen election nonsense like it was the weather or the fortunes of the local football team. I thought that even in conservitard areas, the topic was so obviously loony-bird that most people would be embarrassed to be overheard discussing it.

If I ever decide to move to Indiana, please shoot me.

What got me started on this kick was I added a new line to all my dating profiles. "I lean towards the liberal side so no MAGAs." Suddenly, most white women quit messaging me but messages from black and brown women exploded.

It's obvious that Liberals accept racism against whites.  Don't worry............you're safe with your group.

 But I have a white friend so that makes it ok.