I can't recall who used that phrase to refer to the Middle East, but it's apt. The recent rounds of low-grade warfare and violence are just Part 8,963 of a movie serial that never ends.
Perhaps you'll be surprised to learn that I side with the Israelis on this one. First of all, millenia of people trying to wipe them off the face of the earth entitles them to be a little paranoid, even brutal, and focused on preserving their existence at all costs. Second, their enemies, including Hamas, have never wavered from their stated goal of wiping out Israel and killing all Jews. I don't think I would be inclined to try to live peacefully next to a neighbor who constantly vowed to kill me. Third, they've shown great restraint IMHO and were the situation reversed, the Palestinians would make the Nazis look gentle by comparison.
So what's to be done? Unfortunately, Trump's and the RepubliQ party's support of israel has had the exact opposite of its intended effect: world opinion is decisively arrayed against Israel. Anything or anyone Trump supports, so goes the reasoning, must be bad. This has in turn emboldened Israel's enemies. (It certainly didn't help that Trump made the stupid, inflammatory gesture of moving the US embassy to Jerusalem.)
The only viable solution would be for the Palestinians to become Israeli citizens and for Palestinian territory to be incorporated into Israel. The Israelis have in fact offered that, but they have been adamantly refused. But the existing fragmented Palestinian territory is not a viable independent state.
There are times where I think the best solution would be to send massive quantities of high-grade weapons to both sides and then step back quickly and put our fingers in our ears. I mean, I'd like to see diplomacy take the place of rockets and artillery strikes as a means to settle disputes, but violence is so ingrained in the social fabric of the Middle East, I doubt that sitting down to engage in rational discussion is something anyone even seriously considers.