Originally posted by: O2bnVegas
Does it matter? To me it does. Something to do with pride in the belonging to something.
Most of us grew up cheering our school sports teams to win. It teaches...something.
Marching bands compete. Choir groups compete. Students develop special projects and compete.
We want to win, winning is the thing, but we learn to win and lose with grace, because not everybody can win.
I want to cry when any figure skater or skier or any competetor falls or otherwise bungles their performance. The effort they've put in, perfection in a dozen rehearsals. Then the fickle finger of fate gets a say.
But it is not possible, for me, to not be a bit more happy when "my" country wins a medal.
Candy
And that's a fundamental flaw in the human condition: tribalism. Us rather than them. Our land, our resources, rather than theirs. Our god(s) rather than theirs. Our army versus theirs. And yes, our sports teams versus theirs.
With tribalism in full swing, we care more about our tribe and less about anyone else's. And here's the real killer, Candy: we start to regard the other tribes as less worthy, less deserving, less possessing of human rights, and ultimately, less human.
For example, how many MAGAs think that the Bill of Rights applies only to troo-bloo Americans? Trump certainly thinks that!
Look at how Trump is using tribalism. AMURRICA!!! and USA! USA! USA! Hand in hand with that is a disdain for and antagonism toward all other tribes.
What competition teaches is that tribalism is good and noble and that conflict is an inherently positive thing and makes us all better. I'm sorry, but I can't accept that. I'm a student of history. For all of recorded time, the more tribalism and conflict, the more miserable people's lives have been--including those on the "winning" sides.