Originally posted by: O2bnVegas
Very poor form of Trump to politicize his "so sad" message in that way. Very divisive, no matter which side anyone comes down on. Poor form for a POTUS. JMHO.
Candy
The standard excuse Trump apologists use is that he's supposedly straightforward, speaks his mind, doesn't mince his words, blah blah blah. That's beside the point. In many instances and contexts, how you say something is at least as important as saying it at all. That's doubly true in many social contexts; it's certainly true regarding Presidents.
When someone we care about is hospitalized with a serious condition, do we say, "Dude, you're really sick, and you're probably going to croak"? Of course not! What if that's the absolute truth? Does that matter? Should we say that? Do we say, "Oh, it's the Democrats' fault you're sick, I hate them, and Trump Bibles are only $149"?
From when we're very little, we're taught that there are filters we should apply in certain situations, things we shouldn't say whether they're true or not, and roles we may find ourselves playing in which ordinary politeness and decorum are paramount, even at the expense of brutal honesty:
Someone asks, "How are you?"; do you respond truthfully with," My dog died and I'm having a terrible bout of diarrhea"? At your uncle's funeral, if someone asks you about him, do you say, "He was an asshole and an alcoholic and I'm glad he's dead"? If you're giving a speech at the United Nations, do you say, "A whole lot of you are pathetic, barely functioning countries and we could take you over in two days if we wanted to"? EVEN THOUGH ALL THOSE STATEMENTS MAY BE TRUE???
We expect better behavior from our children, let alone the Chief Executive of our country. And people should stop apologizing for him.