I would be happy if anyone even considering shoplifting thought it was remotely possible that they could be stopped, searched, arrested, booked, and possibly shot if he/she, the shoplifter, escalated the situation. That would be enough, the threat being there and everyone knowing it. But shoplifters by definition have disregard for the law, for my rights not to have prices elevated secondary to shoplifting. I'm thankful I was raised to have regard for the law.
But, let me tell you a personal story. I was, I think, around 3-4 years of age, taken with mom to a store where she would do some shopping. I had sort of drifted away from her side, attracted to a table of really interesting (to me) things like lipsticks or powders, etc. Items on that table fascinated me enough want at least one of them, though I'd not have a clue what to do with it. I remember thinking that mom would probably not include it in her purchases, so the solution was that I would put it in my pocket. Right? Little kids want what they want and they want it right now. Didn't think of myself as doing anything wrong, just avoiding an argument with mommy. At just about the second that lipstick or whatever was about to reach my pocket, a female store clerk called to me "Honey, would you like to pay for that?" And she said it nicely. Gasp!!!!! No, I didn't want to pay for it. Four year olds don't carry money (at least back then they didn't, nor cell phones, nor...but I digress). Oh, gosh. The store lady and I both knew I was about to take something that in all likelihood I wouldn't be paying for. Embarrassed? Oh, hell yes! Somehow I knew.
I swear, that was maybe the number one occasion that taught me that I do not ever reach for something that I do not intend to pay for. I don't recall specific teaching about honesty and all that from the parents. I'm sure they must have mentioned it at some point, probably many points. But on that occasion 72 years ago I got totally and permanently 'vaccinated' against any desire to take something that I didn't pay for. Thank you, store lady, wherever you are now. Ten gazillion moments in my life, few I remember at all. But that one stuck.
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