It is unfortunate that 'pretenders' (my word) have tainted our perceptions of who is actually homeless/needy, at least in my area. We have them hit up our church, often the same female, same story, always asked straight away to see the pastor, very cunning. And, yes, often they drive up in much newer cars than many of us drive, are dressed very well, etc. Years ago the church developed a process, would listen to their stories (same ones: "just need five dollars to pay for a room for my baby and myself in the motel tonight", or "just need five dollars to put gas in my car to get to the bus station"). The policy was to give a same certain amount of cash to the person. Word got out and they were at the door every day, so changed to gas cards, which we learned they would trade for cash at certain places. Then developed some nice plastic containers with useful items (towelets, mints, sunscreen, coupons, etc.) members could give to the ones on the corner holding signs (which make me mad as they do it at really busy corners, a safety issue in my mind but city govt says they have "freedom of speech" to do this). I handed out several, watched as the panhandler tossed them in the bushes.
The same lady panhandler trailed the pastor to his home, showed up his door pretty much demanding money. He had to tell her if she did it again he would call police. She stopped coming to his home but still shows up at the church periodically. same stories. Those are the ones who make folks hesitate to give panhandlers.
There is a passage in the Gospel of Luke (can't cite it at this moment) where he said "If a man asks you for money give it to him and don't expect anything in return." So I packed some stacks of dollar bills to give one or two when approached, vowed to obey this, not worry whether they had actual need or not. However the panhandlers have become so bold they wave me off..."thats no good." In past years at least they'd say "Thank you, God bless", something like that.
I was in Walmart and came upon a really pitiful looking man in a wheelchair trying to tie his shoe. I asked if I could help him with it. He said "I'm trying to get enough money to buy a pair of shoes." I dug in my purse and extended to him a $10 bill. He waved me off and in an ugly tone said "That's not enough to help me" as he rolled away...declined my $10 bill!!!
Actually, I've never seen a charity with the title of "Homeless." I think most people struggle with the notion of whether to give to a panhandler, as they might actually be needy. Everyone has to decide for themselves, give to anyone who asks (as in Luke) or give none. Best is to give to Goodwill, Salvation Army, Women's Shelter, those legitimate organizations where your money will go to legitmate use, as they also are very aware of scammers and screen their 'clients' pretty well. Then some say "But the money goes for administrative costs." Yes, because in order for those orgs to function there ARE administrative costs in order to do the greatest good for the most and the legit.
Rant over....sorry.
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