If you can't look around at the beauty that is America and the blessings that are yours to enjoy in it, you will never be happy, especially when you keep peppering every discussion with negative stuff.
Tonight you will be with friends watching the game. You had the means to buy groceries to make some yummy dishes. You care enough about your friends to wear yourself out cooking good things for them, similarly to what we do at Thanksgiving and Christmas (and granted, we huff and puff while cooking and cleaning it up afterwards, but what a blessing!). That is America the beautiful. You can worship where you like, or not if you don't want to (though I recommend it highly). You can get an education (women can't do that in every country). You can basically do anything you set your mind to doing if you want it badly enough.
Said in another way, you take the bad with the good. And there is much that is good.