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Originally posted by: Liondownnow
jatki99, I think you are wrong about the Bagiant issue. Once he (Bagiant) wrote his confession on this public forum with no research required opinions are fair game. I doubt that I'm alone when I say his actions are shameful at best, even if you disregard his girlfriends illness. He confessed to it still going on for goodness sake. I don't care how great his trip reports are his self confessed moral values aren't even in my zip code.
I don't see what anybody (alanleroy included) needs to feel bad about. Bagiant was trying to "spin" some of the Rizzo comments into how great he treats his girlfriend who is wearing the big diamond ring. Once Bagiant started spinning his web of lies he deserved to be "outed" by that poster. Whomever it was that posted it obviously knew Bagiant was lying so he pulled the curtain back so we could all see the truth.
What kind of web of lies was I spinning? I told the truth about everything.
First of all, that thread that I wrote WAS NOT posted here. I was thinking about posting it here, but decided against it. Someone did a search and dug that BS up. Was it WRONG to post it here....DAMN RIGHT IT WAS. Now I really don't give a shit, but that's just me. I would tell the old lady in a second if I thought she wouldn't get hurt.
But suppose this was someone else, and someone went out and reported this to the persons wife or GF? Now let's say that this causes a breakup of an otherwise content and happy marriage. What would the poster think then? I mean, suppose these people had a very happy 20 year marriage and this one article winds up breaking them up. I just don't think the poster used their brains very much by letting this happen.
As far as I'm concerned, I'm not dead yet, and I need sex just like any other person. To go without it for years just isn't fair. And that's all this is....a sex thing. I'm not looking for anyone else to take her place.... other than in one area. I've been with the "other" woman for 3 days in a row now, and since it's her birthday today..probably a fourth. If you'd like to send your birthday wishes, I'll forward them along.
And speaking of birthdays, last week was my granddaughters 5th, and since one person couldn't/wouldn't go, I invited the other woman. Both my children were there...as well as my Ex, and everyone accepted my "friend". Like I told my daughter...she makes me happy. So it's not exactly like I'm hiding this affair. And her boyfriend knows about me. He even walked in on us once. He was pretty cool about it though. No blows or yelling/screaming matches took place.
So, as far as I'm concerned, you can say anything you want, but just get your facts straight. I've never stated anything about this other woman, before these current threads. I want to thank jatki99 for giving me some support and sticking up for me. But before getting all over my case, some of you better look at yourselves. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. Fact is one out of two married people are having or have had affairs. They all have their reasons...and I'm sure a lot of them are valid...but they are occurring everyday...and I'm sure some of the people posting here are also involved with someone else in one way or the other. You can love someone...but not be IN LOVE with them. And as far as my relationship goes with woman 1, it shouldn't have lasted more than one month...instead of almost 18 years. I should have walked away from her....and actually have at least three times....way too long ago. But she has no life other than me, and just like I wouldn't toss out a dog into the street, I can't get rid of her. She has no where to go. But that's my fault for not being strong enough, and if you knew the things shes done to me behind my back over the years, you'd call me INSANE. But that's my problem.
So talk all you want....It really doesn't bother me one bit. After all, like someone said, I put it out there...although NOT on this forum. But, have a good time. I just didn't sign any kind of contract to be celibate the rest of my life, and let's not forget...we're NOT married. I've been accused of being unfaithful year after year, although before this affair, it's NEVER been true. She never presents any proof that I've been untrue to her. If I am going to accuse anyone of being unfaithful, I'm going to have PROOF BEFORE I make any accusations. And I mean solid proof. If for some reason, she finds out about this affair, I won't lie to her, I'll admit it readily.
