Ashamed


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Originally posted by: drmilled
Bagiant- Being a private person I prefer not to comment about my personal life to anyone. Though I can comprehend your reasons, they are none of my or anyone else's business. It is easy to have hindsight- for if you had not of written your first article none of any of this follow up would of happened. Something to think about.


Drmilled....I did not write that thread for this site. Someone decided to do a search for some reason and came up with my thread from ANOTHER site. Now I could've said that I was only kidding around to get a reaction from people at the other site or some other BS, but I didn't. The person that did the search and posted it acted irresponsibly, and posted the thread without putting much thought about the consequences. Since I'm fortunate to have no consequences to suffer, it doesn't affect me at all. I'm not losing any sleep over it.
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Originally posted by: BAGIANT
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Originally posted by: drmilled
Bagiant- Being a private person I prefer not to comment about my personal life to anyone. Though I can comprehend your reasons, they are none of my or anyone else's business. It is easy to have hindsight- for if you had not of written your first article none of any of this follow up would of happened. Something to think about.


Drmilled....I did not write that thread for this site. Someone decided to do a search for some reason and came up with my thread from ANOTHER site. Now I could've said that I was only kidding around to get a reaction from people at the other site or some other BS, but I didn't. The person that did the search and posted it acted irresponsibly, and posted the thread without putting much thought about the consequences. Since I'm fortunate to have no consequences to suffer, it doesn't affect me at all. I'm not losing any sleep over it.


THAT is exactly the point i was trying to get across. It matters not what any of us think about his morality or anything else for that amtter. The thing that was a really sh!tty thing to do was hunt down what he did on another forum and post it here. The person who "outed" himonly copied and pasted that "f*ck buddy" conversation on that particular thread and he was right about he couldv'e denied it or whatever,but he didn't.

How would ANYONE here feel if somebody dug up some crap on them and spread it here? I bet attitudes about the subject would change dramitically if it happened to them. Again it's not if you agree or disagree with his actions,only that someone posted that stuff here to do nothing more than to smear bagiant.


JOHN

jatki99, If you want to single out the guy who tattled that is one thing. I totally disagree with you adding in comments about supposed lemmings. The real bashing started when Bagiant wrote his confession. Dr Milled was right on, he should have kept his private business private. I don't think any member could post a confession about cheating on here and get 100% support. Bagiant didn't initiate it but he did choose to confirm it by confessing.

I feel like Bagiant proved himself to be a liar HIMSELF in this forum-

Page 13 of that thread Bagiant said-

"And Rizzo Jr., as far as hot broads at the bar, there's nothing wrong with looking at them. I never said I went to one of their rooms and was banging them. If that Asian was blowing me off, how come she kept on coming up to me at the bar to say "hello" whenever she arrived?"

A LIE,,,he isn't just looking at them

Other comments he makes include "I take good care of my lady,and even let her wear my mothers 7 carat diamond ring when we go to town."

A LIE,,, unless treating her good includes cheating on her.


What he chooses to do in his personal life is his business. He totally outed himself, I didn't go looking or it, he confessed it. I don't feel bad for a liar or a cheater. Do you feel bad for Governator Arnold? Anthony Weiner?

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Originally posted by: jatki99
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Originally posted by: BAGIANT
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Originally posted by: drmilled
Bagiant- Being a private person I prefer not to comment about my personal life to anyone. Though I can comprehend your reasons, they are none of my or anyone else's business. It is easy to have hindsight- for if you had not of written your first article none of any of this follow up would of happened. Something to think about.


Drmilled....I did not write that thread for this site. Someone decided to do a search for some reason and came up with my thread from ANOTHER site. Now I could've said that I was only kidding around to get a reaction from people at the other site or some other BS, but I didn't. The person that did the search and posted it acted irresponsibly, and posted the thread without putting much thought about the consequences. Since I'm fortunate to have no consequences to suffer, it doesn't affect me at all. I'm not losing any sleep over it.


THAT is exactly the point i was trying to get across. It matters not what any of us think about his morality or anything else for that amtter. The thing that was a really sh!tty thing to do was hunt down what he did on another forum and post it here. The person who "outed" himonly copied and pasted that "f*ck buddy" conversation on that particular thread and he was right about he couldv'e denied it or whatever,but he didn't.

How would ANYONE here feel if somebody dug up some crap on them and spread it here? I bet attitudes about the subject would change dramitically if it happened to them. Again it's not if you agree or disagree with his actions,only that someone posted that stuff here to do nothing more than to smear bagiant.


JOHN

Don't publish anything you don't want everyone to know. Be prepared to own your words after you write them, no matter where you write them. It's just that simple.

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Originally posted by: BAGIANT
But suppose this was someone else, and someone went out and reported this to the persons wife or GF? Now let's say that this causes a breakup of an otherwise content and happy marriage.


the cheating would be the cause of the marriage breaking up, not the copying and pasting of the cheaters posts. the copying and pasting would be what got the cheater caught.



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Originally posted by: jenaphir
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Originally posted by: BAGIANT
But suppose this was someone else, and someone went out and reported this to the persons wife or GF? Now let's say that this causes a breakup of an otherwise content and happy marriage.


the cheating would be the cause of the marriage breaking up, not the copying and pasting of the cheaters posts. the copying and pasting would be what got the cheater caught.


Exactly! Bags why would you even post that anywhere. And then coming back and defending yourself by saying your LF has done horrible things to you. She can't defend herself. Anyone ever tell you 2 wrongs don't make a right.

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Originally posted by: cancer chic
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Originally posted by: jenaphir
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Originally posted by: BAGIANT
But suppose this was someone else, and someone went out and reported this to the persons wife or GF? Now let's say that this causes a breakup of an otherwise content and happy marriage.


the cheating would be the cause of the marriage breaking up, not the copying and pasting of the cheaters posts. the copying and pasting would be what got the cheater caught.


Exactly! Bags why would you even post that anywhere. And then coming back and defending yourself by saying your LF has done horrible things to you. She can't defend herself. Anyone ever tell you 2 wrongs don't make a right.


I totally agree! I agree with the last 3 statements made before this one.

It sure seems that only the author of this thread, and the "singer in disguise" dude are the only ones that think everyone else is fucked up, and BAGS is an innocent victim in all this. LOL

Talk about being out of touch with reality! The dude outed himself...nobody broke into his house and read his diary, or tapped a phone conversation of his...he openly admitted, and bragged about his situation on another site.

You can't say you treat your woman really good, and with respect, and "only look" at other women.... on one web site, and follow that up with posting on another website that you have fuck buddies, and have been cheating on your old lady for a while.

What this creep is doing is absolutley wrong, and I don't care to know about his "needs", or how well the hooker gets along with his ex wife, other family, and friends. That doesn't make things OK.

Personally I wouldn't bring a nasty, fat, old, hooker to a family gathering...but thats just me. I still have some class!


--Rizzo


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Originally posted by: FrankieRizzo
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Originally posted by: cancer chic
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Originally posted by: jenaphir
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Originally posted by: BAGIANT
But suppose this was someone else, and someone went out and reported this to the persons wife or GF? Now let's say that this causes a breakup of an otherwise content and happy marriage.


the cheating would be the cause of the marriage breaking up, not the copying and pasting of the cheaters posts. the copying and pasting would be what got the cheater caught.


Exactly! Bags why would you even post that anywhere. And then coming back and defending yourself by saying your LF has done horrible things to you. She can't defend herself. Anyone ever tell you 2 wrongs don't make a right.


I totally agree! I agree with the last 3 statements made before this one.

It sure seems that only the author of this thread, and the "singer in disguise" dude are the only ones that think everyone else is fucked up, and BAGS is an innocent victim in all this. LOL

Talk about being out of touch with reality! The dude outed himself...nobody broke into his house and read his diary, or tapped a phone conversation of his...he openly admitted, and bragged about his situation on another site.

You can't say you treat your woman really good, and with respect, and "only look" at other women.... on one web site, and follow that up with posting on another website that you have fuck buddies, and have been cheating on your old lady for a while.

What this creep is doing is absolutley wrong, and I don't care to know about his "needs", or how well the hooker gets along with his ex wife, other family, and friends. That doesn't make things OK.

Personally I wouldn't bring a nasty, fat, old, hooker to a family gathering...but thats just me. I still have some class!


--Rizzo


Lmao at this! Poor guy claims he has needs. Who the hell cares. You should be tried and true to your lady.
If you have needs that bad just watch some porn and shake that willy!


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