Is this a perfect example about today's kids feel they are "owed" everything in life or are the parents really indebted to their daughter until she completes her education?
One of my best friends went a few round with his girlfriend/wife 's son one time. It was almost identical to this case. He felt he was "owed" his college education and it was the duty of every parent to provide one. I know I sure as hell didn't feel I was owed anything, in fact I paid my own tuition one semester because I totally F'd up one semester(too much partying) and felt I had wasted my parents money and I in fact "owed" them. Didn't have to but I felt I did.
It'll be interesting how this turns out, I'm gonna try and follow.
"A New Jersey teenager claiming that her mother and father tossed her out of their home and cut her off financially is suing them for immediate support, current private-school fees and future college tuition. The parents, meanwhile, say that daughter Rachel Canning, 18, moved out voluntarily after refusing to abide by their rules.
We love our child and miss her. This is terrible. It’s killing me and my wife,” Rachel's father, Sean Canning, a town administrator and retired police officer, tells the Daily Record. “We have a child we want home. We’re not Draconian and now we’re getting hauled into court. She’s demanding that we pay her bills but she doesn’t want to live at home, and she’s saying, ‘I don’t want to live under your rules.’” The rules, he notes, include reconsidering her relationship with a boyfriend who may be a bad influence, being respectful, and abiding by her curfew...."
https://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/nj-teen-sues-parents-for-cash-and-college-tuition-201404488.html
One of my best friends went a few round with his girlfriend/wife 's son one time. It was almost identical to this case. He felt he was "owed" his college education and it was the duty of every parent to provide one. I know I sure as hell didn't feel I was owed anything, in fact I paid my own tuition one semester because I totally F'd up one semester(too much partying) and felt I had wasted my parents money and I in fact "owed" them. Didn't have to but I felt I did.
It'll be interesting how this turns out, I'm gonna try and follow.
"A New Jersey teenager claiming that her mother and father tossed her out of their home and cut her off financially is suing them for immediate support, current private-school fees and future college tuition. The parents, meanwhile, say that daughter Rachel Canning, 18, moved out voluntarily after refusing to abide by their rules.
We love our child and miss her. This is terrible. It’s killing me and my wife,” Rachel's father, Sean Canning, a town administrator and retired police officer, tells the Daily Record. “We have a child we want home. We’re not Draconian and now we’re getting hauled into court. She’s demanding that we pay her bills but she doesn’t want to live at home, and she’s saying, ‘I don’t want to live under your rules.’” The rules, he notes, include reconsidering her relationship with a boyfriend who may be a bad influence, being respectful, and abiding by her curfew...."
https://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/nj-teen-sues-parents-for-cash-and-college-tuition-201404488.html