About two years ago I got a call from a married ex-girlfriend who wanted to meet up when she came to town to visit her nephew, or so she said. I've met her nephew twenty years or so ago.
The guy she's married to is the same one she left me for while I was activated for Desert Storm (1991). At the time, she claimed that if truly loved her I would have married her before I left for overseas. Unfortunately, there were too many family issues on her side that I wouldn't and was happy for the out.
Those issues seem to be resolved now.
When I returned, her husband's pregnant ex-girlfriend introduced herself to me, by knocking on my door.
Funny that my ex and I had a discussion twenty years ago, that the husband claimed it wasn't his child. I told her his ex wouldn't claim paternity without knowing. I don't know and don't care, but go figure!
Now she says that her husband is a good father, but a crappy husband .
I told her I didn't understand the purpose of the call and didn't want to meet with her. I was single at the time.
Now, two years later, the girl I dated when I got back from Desert storm in 1991 and broke up with a couple of year later has cyber found me.
She's married to a guy that was after her while we dated and has three kids with him.
She's sent me messages on Facebook and LinkedIn several times since I didn't respond, looking for a connection.
I don't want to connect with her. Why would I since I broke up with her because she was a control freak. A leopard can't change their spots.
Why is this happening and how do I stop the cyber-stalking?
The guy she's married to is the same one she left me for while I was activated for Desert Storm (1991). At the time, she claimed that if truly loved her I would have married her before I left for overseas. Unfortunately, there were too many family issues on her side that I wouldn't and was happy for the out.
Those issues seem to be resolved now.
When I returned, her husband's pregnant ex-girlfriend introduced herself to me, by knocking on my door.
Funny that my ex and I had a discussion twenty years ago, that the husband claimed it wasn't his child. I told her his ex wouldn't claim paternity without knowing. I don't know and don't care, but go figure!
Now she says that her husband is a good father, but a crappy husband .
I told her I didn't understand the purpose of the call and didn't want to meet with her. I was single at the time.
Now, two years later, the girl I dated when I got back from Desert storm in 1991 and broke up with a couple of year later has cyber found me.
She's married to a guy that was after her while we dated and has three kids with him.
She's sent me messages on Facebook and LinkedIn several times since I didn't respond, looking for a connection.
I don't want to connect with her. Why would I since I broke up with her because she was a control freak. A leopard can't change their spots.
Why is this happening and how do I stop the cyber-stalking?
