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Originally posted by: motownbob
Why does your friend find it necessary to be "buzzed " thruout the day ? As a stay at home dad , it seems that he would need all of his faculties 100 % intact to do a proper job of raising his children . Doesn't the experience of watching his children grow up provide him enough joy ? Why cloud this experience with a distorted view of reality ? Bob
I think this is where the distortion of reality and preconceived notions lie. Many people automatically think lazy, air headed zombie stoner when they hear of someone who smokes when it's usually the furtherest thing from the truth. I'm not here to defend my neighbor or anyone else, what others do is their business, not for me (or you) to judge. If there was the slightest inkling of any harm to his kids, I would've said something tho. In my eyes he was a better, more hands on parent than most I've met.
I was talking from experience, pretty extensive experience actually, more than I really care to admit but when people start talking about things like they've been there, gimme a break. Some one who smoked pot once or twice or "knows some stoners",or whatever, doesn't really know what they're talking about.
I'll never forget the first time my mom actually caught me stoned, my friend and I came home, eyes blazing red and giggling and she sat us down for "the talk" about how dangerous pot was. She traveled to many bridge tournaments and there was pot smoking in some of the rooms, she knew all about it. When her speech started out with how it decreased your appetite, we lost it. She only spoke from further ignorance from there, I'll never forget it and still tease her to this day (a little, not much ). I think that was 8th or 9th grade.
As i said earlier, it's the person way more than it is the drug.