Sharlene Is MIA!

but that is a hooker.

I generally associate the term 'hooker' with the whores that walk the street or troll the hotel and casino bars. What he is describing, I would just call a whore. Maybe a call girl.

Oh, please........ that's what YOU may call "it".

Personally, I don't care if you'd rather get your milk one cup at a time rather than purchase a cow, or whether you have cows milk one day and goat milk the next, nor do I care about your relationship (or lack of) with your wife, but please, just call a spade a spade.

The "thing" that concerns me is that you appear to be delusional about your "relationship" with her. You pay her for sex. Sometimes you disguise payment as "favors", but it's still pay to play.

She's selling or trading sex with you for tangible or intangible goods and services.

She is an addict, and a whore. You are her "JOHN".

You must have missed the part about how she thought he was 'cute'. And the part about how she hasn't had anything stronger than Nyquil.

I do wonder about how in the world she is on SSI. That's disability, right?

He's obviously incapable of looking at himself objectively. But I think this is so common that it's not fair to say "delusional," because it connotes mental illness.

I think these fantasies, this form of entertainment, is quite common among men of a certain age. [E.g. "Playboy" magazine, "entertainment for men"]. So far, Bagiant's distractive dalliance has been generally harmless. Of course it hasn't been helpful to his family, but he is equally incapable of thinking objectively about that.

I would say the risk stems mostly from the motives of others, rather than from his internal confusion.

Bags, are you sure you did not pull your "story of meeting" from the Penthouse Forums? Sorry, I am with the girls on this, you are simply screwin' a hooker! Call it anything you want but that is what it amounts to.

Good Luck, oh a Motel 6! Really?

I don't think I would call her a "hooker" as she isn't walking the streets to make money. I'd call her a "mistress" and let it go like that. After all, whether directly or indirectly, a mistress receives money for sex,but you wouldn't call her a hooker.

As far as her receiving SSI, I really don't know why she's receiving it, although I think it's because of a mental problem, and that's why I'm her representative payee and handle her money. Her SSI gets deposited in an account we set up in my name as her representative payee. I then distribute the money to her every month. I did get her a debit card for that account, but since she abused that privilege by over drafting her account, she no longer is getting a card to withdraw money. I withdraw money from my account, and then transfer money from her account to mine to make up the difference.

As far as her still getting high, I don't think so. First of all she doesn't have the people near her that supplied her drugs, and I can tell from talking to her whether she is high or not. Believe me, I can tell from just talking to her on the phone.

The Motel 6 was my choice not hers.

Regardless, she is not MENTAL enough to get SSI, just another scammer I am paying for. She can do all this other stuff, then she can get off her ass and get a job and needs to be reported.

Yet she disappeared for a few days, whereabouts unknown, no communications. Yet you persist in believing she slept because of Nyquil? Really?

BTW: I have some high and dry swampland for sale. Cheap.

I am not faulting you for your actions with her. I do not particular care where or how you get your jollies, with whom, or for whatever reason you choose. Nor do I care how you justify your "relationship" or what you call it.

I'm just saying that, if she is the best that you can "get", and you're happy with what you have, than enjoy.

I just think that you are deceiving to yourself, and not recognizing this for what it is.

IMHO, you're in a dream world. Hope you don't wake up with a nightmare.