alanleroy, I disagree about jenipher's initial posts. They were meant to immediately show disbelief and not to help with the issue at hand. Obviously it would have been better had I worn the jewelry and/or locked it in the safe. I think it's obvious that is not the help we were looking for and we have taken responsibility for my lack of judgement from the beginning. We took offense to her tone from the beginning and that is just the truth. When we saw Discostu's reply, it felt good that we weren't the only one's offended. We certainly felt "kicked while we were down" because we were still feeling bad about the loss and then were told how stupid we were for not using the safe. That being said, I understand that it her comments were just to try to get the story straight and understand what was going on.