| I discreetly inform the waiter or waitress; if he or she can't fix the problem, I speak to the manager. |
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| When a food item isn't right, I send it back after the first bite or two and tell the server why. |
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| I'm much more tolerant of bad restaurant experiences these days, knowing that restaurants and especially wait staffs are having a very hard time. |
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| I almost always forgive and give a second chance. Everyone has a bad day. |
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| I complete an emailed or web-based survey, which often has good results. |
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| I find that service is worse since the pandemic began. |
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| I don't say anything, but I don't leave a tip and never go back. |
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| Restaurant service is about the same, but getting a table is much more difficult. |
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| If it's something they can fix, I tell them. If they fix it, I'm fine. If they don't fix it, I raise hell. |
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| If it's a strictly service problem, I settle up what I owe, cancel the rest, and walk out. |
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| I suffer in silence, but I tell my friends and post about it on restaurant-review sites when I get home. |
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| I hold my tongue until I get home, then email the restaurant and/or corporate headquarters with my complaint. |
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| I don't say anything, but I don't leave a tip and never go back. |
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| I find that I'm more demanding that I was pre-pandemic; I've been deprived for so long that I want everything to be perfect now. |
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| I wait until the end of the meal, then complain. |
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| I make a big fuss and don’t care who hears; I’m paying for satisfaction and I don’t care if heads roll. I'm doing other diners a favor by not settling. |
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Analysis
Clearly, restaurant-going LVAers aren't shy about bringing attention to dining-out experiences that are less than satisfactory. Telling the wait person, sending food back to the kitchen, and summoning the manager garnered 37% of the vote. Another 11% fill out a survey or dash off an email after the fact, 4% "raise hell" or "make a big fuss" when necessary, 3% post a bad review and/or warn others to stay away, and 1% complains at the end of the meal. All told, that's 56% that vocally respond to problems with a meal.
Meanwhile, 23% of voters are "tolerant" (especially with the challenges presented by the pandemic, as 6% of respondents acknowledge) and/or "forgive and forget."
Most drastically, 4% pay for served food, then walk. And 2% stiff the waiter and boycott the place forevermore.
If the results of this poll are any indication, it's best to inform the restaurant of an unacceptable situation. And having worked in a number of restaurants, we tend to agree. There's little worse for a wait person than to get stiffed, with patrons storming off in a huff, without knowing why. And if there's a problem with food coming out of the kitchen, the waiter/waitress and manager will always want to know why, so they can address the situation.