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Question of the Day - 20 December 2025

Q:

Is it appropriate to give my casino host a holiday gift? If so, what is an appropriate gift?

A:

We've delved into this thorny thicket a few times over the years; it's asked fairly frequently. The last time we did, nearly four years ago, we put it out to three of our most quotable casino consultants to see what they might have to say about it. We note that not much, if anything, has changed since then, so these responses are as good today as they were in 2022. 

Dennis Conrad, long-time casino marketing executive, founder of casino-consulting company Raving, and columnist for CDC Gaming Reports, says, from his vast experience, “Casinos are all over the map on this one, usually allowing some limited tips and/or gifts. Tips put hosts in a conflict as to where their loyalties lie. Is it with the generous player (who is probably working an angle)? Or is it with casino management (which is probably underpaying its hosts, but doesn’t want them being bribed by the player while supposedly representing the casino’s interest)? Tough situation. 

“I say pay the hosts like top executives,” concludes Conrad, putting the responsibility on management, “and give them the skills and  training that allow them to have a real career with measurable goals and not have to pass the tin cup around to players to make a living wage.”

A more categorical approach to the issue is offered by VitalVegas blogger Scott Roeben, who says that tipping might be allowed, but like Conrad, notes that it varies from casino to casino. “Often, casino hosts can’t take cash, so that means getting creative with how to tip,” he elaborates.

One of the best ways is with gift cards. Players often develop friendships with their hosts and get to know what the host likes, so they can show appreciation accordingly. For example, guests might ask their hosts about their favorite restaurant, then get gift cards specific to them. Of course, hosts are careful not to run afoul of their casino’s policies. 

“They can sometimes accept envelopes and those envelopes sometimes contain cash. Opening the envelope outside the casino seems a way to bypass the rules. It’s best to ask and respect the wishes of your host. They're the conduit to a cavalcade of wonderful perks and they appreciate being appreciated,” says Scott.

The last word on this subject comes from Jean Scott's More Frugal Gambling (the most comprehensive book that Jean ever wrote; though it's a bit out of date with specific examples, the general concepts, as you'll see in this answer, are still overwhelmingly relevant. And it's on sale at the giveaway price of $6.99).

Jean writes, "Many players develop such good relationships with their hosts that they want to give them tips or gifts. Some states have specific regulations that govern this and if there's a no-tip rule, it's strictly enforced by the casino. In Nevada, it's left to the casino to determine the tip/gift policies for hosts. 

"At some casinos, hosts aren't allowed to take any gifts at all; it's a strict rule and hosts can be fired if they violate it. Other casinos forbid their hosts to take cash gifts, a policy that avoids the problem, at least partially, of hosts being bribed for comps. 

"If a casino allows it, cash is the number-one gift of choice. I suggest you be classy about it; don't slap a bill in his or her hand. At least put it in an envelope, which you can always obtain at the front desk. Better is to include it in a thank-you card. 

"Gift certificates are usually allowable, even if cash isn't. This is the number-two gift choice. A gift card to a fine local department store is most welcome, as hosts have to buy a lot of clothes to keep up a good appearance. But even a card to Walmart or Target will be welcome; hosts have everyday needs like the rest of us.

"You might make an inexpensive bet at the sports book and give your host the ticket.

"If you get to know your host real well and he or she has children or grandchildren, a gift for them, or the wife or husband, is often appropriate. 

"If you receive a lot of comps for your play, sharing the surplus is a nice gesture. Perhaps you have a room comp you can't use and can give it to your host for an overnight getaway from home or a meal comp to a nice restaurant as a treat.

"Of course, showing your appreciation, with a nice thank-you card or voice mail, or even a letter to the marketing supervisor or director, goes a long way.

"Some things not to give a host: perfume, costume jewelry, clothing items, candy, knickknacks, and liquor (unless you know for sure it'll be appreciated). Of course, a host will always pretend to be grateful for any gift, but in my discussions with hosts on this subject, they usually say they're overwhelmed with these kinds of gifts and rarely keep them."

Thank you, Jean, as always.

In some of our previous answers to this question, we provided additional information that we revisit here. 

Caesars Entertainment, for example, has an official policy that hosts are not permitted to accept cash. Of course, cash makes the world go round and we know high rollers who toke hosts in cash and we know hosts who accept cash tokes, but it’s almost always done in private.

One high-roller friend told us, "I tip my hosts with money all over the place, albeit behind closed doors, and almost never have it refused."

When another hit a mid-six-figure jackpot, she tipped her host "huge" and said it was "expected."

Another said, "Only once did a host say she couldn’t take the $100 bill I gave her; she said the limit was $50. So I put $50 in an envelope and my wife put $50 in an envelope and gave them to her separately."

So the consensus is, yes, tip when appropriate (such as when the host has actually made a difference for you), but be creative. In the end, it's up to you how to approach this. We say offer your host an envelope in private and see what happens. If it's accepted, that's that. If not, then resort to Plan B and gift cards, a sports bet, comps, or gifts that will be kept. 

 

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  • Donzack Dec-20-2025
    Only one
    I only gave Christmas gifts,gift cards,to one host. I think she pulled every string available to make me a loyal customer. She knows who she is. Very hard worker. Responded to every communication while at work or off duty. Merry Christmas 

  • O2bnVegas Dec-20-2025
    All over the gift map
    One Host got cash.  I used the hotel room stationery, wrote a thank you, subtly drop the card on his desk when he was present.  What he really loved were my home-made choc/peanut clusters.  First time for that was at Christmas.  Got a hand written thank you in the mail. Next trip he met my limo, waiting for 'the peanuts', which I hadn't thought to bring.  He displayed extreme disappointment!  From then on, every trip he got the 'peanuts'. 
    
    My first ever Host, female, I brought a nice knickknack in a pretty gift bag/thank you card, left it on her desk.  She was a class act, always a nice hand written thank you in the mail.  Had no idea about policy. She hadn't done that much for me, just booked the offered stays, once got us tickets to Bette Midler/limo to MGM.  
    
    I was told even if a Host gushed about those trinkets he/she would gather them for door prizes at their holiday parties.  Have no idea if this was true. LOL.

  • O2bnVegas Dec-20-2025
    Another story
    Another 'best of the best' Host had recruited me from the floor.  Gave me his card, said "call me", and wow did he come through!  Best rooms, show tickets (off site).  Even sent ME big flower arrangements to my room (wasted, couldn't take them on the plane, but impressive).  I was just a dollar 3/5 VP player at the most.  Maybe he was 'hungry'.  I tipped gift card to a nice men's store, a Honey Baked Ham at The holidays.  NEVER received a thank you from him, then one day he disappeared. Gone from the property, and they never will tell when that happens.  You know they know, just won't tell, I guess so you won't try to follow them.
    
    I was thanked profusely by two other Hosts, two other properties, to whom I just gave some of my homemade 'peanuts' at holiday time, not every trip. 
    
    I don't worry about tipping Hosts anymore, actually.  Except maybe some home made goodies that travel well.

  • Edso Dec-20-2025
    Show Appreciation
    We have shown appreciation to our host at the Westgate a few different ways.....gift cards to restaurants like Lawry's, Applebee's or Olive Garden, tequila from our comped cruise to the Mexican Riviera (he does drink tequila), and See's candy....as there are no See's in LV.  
    
    Get to know the host and things that they or their family will like. 

  • Albert Pearson Dec-20-2025
    Great gift idea
    For one of my favorite hosts who i know likes to gamble, I give him a yearly subscription to the LVA, and I'm pretty sure he likes it. I swear that this isn't a paid endorsement. 

  • sunny78 Dec-20-2025
    salary tip
    Seems everything is tip this/that into endless oblivion from the person who dispenses a drink expects a tip now. I think tipping has largely lost it's meaning and means little these days. For hosts specifically, playing enough in a casino to get something from them shows me the player already gave the best tip of all....playing in the casino and funding the hosts salary and the casinos bottom line. Perhaps that's enough? It seems if anything, the host should be "tipping" the player keeping them in a job-paycheck, yes?

  • Lucky Dec-22-2025
    Gifts
    My wife makes these chocolate pretzels that are decadent.  We send those to both hosts who take care of us in 2 locations.  They both love them, and ask us if their dentist is on it.  Neither of them ever made me feel like I owed them anything.  They do take care of me covering almost everything they can.  I always get a call from both of them thanking me for the gifts.  This year, wife hurt her back, so no pretzels.  Sending Sees Candies.  Bland, not personal, but want to show my appreciation.