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Question of the Day - 13 August 2021

Q:

I was reading about divorce and how the pandemic has increased the numbers. One chart was from 2019, before the pandemic, and it listed Nevada in the top three states for the percentage of divorced women per 1,000 married couples at 10.2%, only a half-percent less than first-place Arkansas at 10.7%. Is this because Nevada divorces are so easy to get? Or are there other reasons? 

A:

Nevada has long been known to have a higher-than-average divorce rate, so your question, why is this so, seems like a natural to us.

One can never really know for sure, especially when it comes to relationship issues, but here are some possibilities.

As you mentioned, Nevada divorces are quicker and easier than those in many other states and they have been for more than 100 years. Thus, Nevada has a well-earned reputation as a divorce capital and no doubt people still come here and set up residency for 42 days to qualify for no-fault divorces, which can be finalized in a couple more weeks, in some cases.

Similarly, the ease of getting married here could be assumed to promote impromptu or hasty legal couplings, without much thought to the probability of long-term success. Well-publicized examples include the shortest celebrity marriage on record, Britney Spears and her childhood friend Jason Alexander, who tied the knot for 55 hours, 1-1,274th as long as the average American marriage that ends in divorce (eight years). And who can forget the connubial bliss of Dennis Rodman and Carmen Electra, which dragged on and on and on for five months, though Rodman filed for an annulment after nine days? Then there was Nicolas Cage's fourth marriage, which lasted four days before he applied for an annulment. 

Another cause is that couples continue to move to Nevada, especially Las Vegas, for second (or third or fourth) chances in lives that have bottomed out elsewhere. So they often arrive under financial stress and with other problems. At the same time, recent arrivals usually don’t have friends or family nearby, which often hinders an ability to alleviate the stresses.

The same issues are true for single people who move here. Men and women without family or close friends might be more susceptible to ill-advised marriages simply to ward off isolation and loneliness.

We’ve also seen statistics on the jobs with the highest divorce rates. Dancers/choreographers, for some reason, have the highest, at nearly 44%. Yikes. Bartenders, massage therapists, and casino cashiers are second through fourth. So four out of the top five most divorce-prone jobs, according to one website anyway, are common in the Silver State.

High unemployment and foreclosure rates, to which Las Vegas residents seem to be particularly vulnerable, considering that the city is often at the top of those two lists, also shake the foundations of marriages. During the Great Recession, a number of studies came out providing ample evidence that job loss increases the odds of divorce. (On the other hand, in researching this answer, we also saw a study that suggested the recession actually lowered the divorce rate, as unhappy couples postponed splitting up until they could better afford it.)

Finally, lifestyle is certainly a conspicuous factor. Gambling and drinking, two common activities here, exacerbate relationship issues. Few marriages survive alcoholism and/or compulsive gambling. And again, many people who move here end up succumbing to these, and other, relationship-destroying temptations.

All in all, Las Vegas can be a tough place for sustaining a long-term relationship, something couples considering moving here, especially to retire, should think long and hard about.

 

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  • steve crouse Aug-13-2021
    Bars and Casinos
    The old saw goes "If you find em in a bar, you lose em in a bar"
    Same gows for casinos.

  • JimBeam Aug-13-2021
    Depends on the data
    This was a fun QoD but one that is susceptible to interpretation based on how the data was collected and/or interpreted. For example, I know a lot of locals - myself included - who moved here after a divorce *somewhere else*. Or maybe they moved here during the divorce proceedings and it was finalized in Las Vegas but not necessarily caused by Las Vegas. You also run into a lot of locals that are long-time separated but not yet legally divorced. Did that person name themselves as divorced in the survey? So this whole question depends on how the original survey would have asked the question or how someone views themself as "divorced". 

  • That Don Guy Aug-13-2021
    Surprised nobody mentioned the "R-word"
    For a long time, divorce was associated with one city: Reno. I never did quite understand what singled Reno out. I assumed that Nevada's "six-week residency" law (you only need to live in Nevada for six weeks in order to get a divorce) is what made the state quite attractive.
    
    Nothing new about Nevada and divorce going hand-in-hand; I remember a line from "The Facts of Life": "Nobody lives in Nevada except Wayne Newton...or someone getting a divorce." There was also an early episode of "M*A*S*H" where a character who suspected his wife was cheating on him got a letter from her, and everybody panicked because it was from Reno (it turned out he lived there).

  • O2bnVegas Aug-13-2021
    Reno divorce movie
    "The Women."  All female (A-listers), hilarious.  Joan Crawford, Rosalind Russell, Norma Shearer, among others. 

  • Jeff Aug-13-2021
    @That Don Guy
    That's absolutely true about Reno rather than Vegas or Nevada being synonymous in the public mind with quickie divorces at least in days gone by. I also don't know why that is or was.
    
    I remember -- many, many years ago --  a 9th grade English teacher holding up the front page of that morning's New York Daily News, a sensationalist, gossipy tabloid newspaper.
    
    I forget which Hollywood star it was -- maybe Shelley Winters --, but the headline screamed, "SHELLEY WINTERS RENOS" (or whoever it was).
    
    This was commonly understood slang of the day meaning that the actress's latest marriage was kaput.
    
    Mr. Perkins objected to a noun being used as a verb. This usage faux pas was a pet peeve of his and many other sticklers of proper English usage.