This is a repeat of a column from more than 10 years ago. Today, the games are different. I play at different places. I’ve even changed my wife! (Not on purpose. Fortunately, I’ve ended up in a good place with Bonnie. Shirley has moved back to Las Vegas after a time in California. She started showing up at the same advanced square dance group that Bonnie and I attend. For a time, it was awkward for Bonnie, but not so much anymore. I have no interest in turning back the clock and hooking up with Shirley again, and I’m pretty sure she feels similarly.) The thought processes I went through at the time remain intact today and are worth discussing.
One Wednesday evening, I was at my desk, answering email, recording daily results, preparing an article for the next week, etc. Shirley came in and asked if there was anything she could do. I told her she could sort my bag if she wanted.
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