Privilege.
A word recently in fashion referring to benefits accorded persons of certain economic or social (and most recently racial) standing. David introduces a variant. Rather than the 'privilege' of wearing $200 sneakers as a result of gainful employment and saving enough to afford them, David suggests privileges not earned or saved up for but afforded secondary to certain public laws and policies.
Some examples of privileges in my day, i.e. 1955-1968:
- Attending extracurricular events/activities with friends (contingent upon completion of household chores, decent grades, respectful behavior toward parents and siblings, otherwise denied);
- Driving the family car (after passing the exams and earning license; contingent upon demonstrating good driving habits; damage to car or getting traffic tickets impacted this privilege significantly);
- Going to summer camp (contingent upon demonstrating good behaviors throughout the school year).
Just a few of what were considered privileges in my child and teen years. Most incurred a cost to the parents, thus they could withhold the privilege if criteria were not met. Somehow we knew this; one denial was usually enough to get the message that things are EARNED, not given carte blanche. In my growing up, anyway. I know that such is not always the case now.
But the value of working toward something and the pride in achieving it is overall a more satisfying outcome, despite what might look like a "privilege" handed over for no effort on the part of the recipient.
That's life. Get over it.